QUOTE (mrchitown @ Oct 1 2013, 07:10 PM)
Nah, everybody's life is different...your morals and principles don't mean much to another person because they lived a different reality then you. I don't do shit for my father because he a fuck boy and anybody who try to tell me any different would get beat so bad I'd make them lose control of their bodily functions! Dude was in my life for a minimum amount of time, I think that's why I gotta good memory because I remember the day he left, then he tried to come back and bounced again then he tried to come back when I was already a man and almost caught the most legendary ass whooping ever. Family or no family you don't look out for fuck n***** because you look soft, at least IMO
I'm all about family but when we a unit, not the whole cracked out disappearing bullshit that goes on in many black families. Yeah you right but look at that clown shit Floyd and his father did on that 24/7, that was one of the worst moments I ever seen. Don't use Floyd as an example all the time because you won't win all the time lol. It's good that they get along now but they had a petty back and forth. Whose to say Adrien won't mend the relationship with his mom? We don't know that and shouldn't judge. Hell we don't even know what the issue is. By your standards, you shouldn't even watch sports or listen to music, etc because a lot of athletes and other entertainers do that..word to Kobe Bryant and R Kelly
Me personally, if I had the money like that I wouldn't leave my mom nowhere near the hood. I don't even have his money and I keep my mom's close so I can keep an eye on her and make sure she good, but my dad can catch a slug to the head and I wouldn't bat an eye
Damn Chi! I was just taught differently. I look how the Jews and Asians do, no matter how fucked up their family might be, they take care of their own. I do understand your point. I honestly do. A lot of families struggle, black white, Spanish and everything in between. I think black families get highlighted because it sells papers. Did you know that whites were 8x to use crack than Blacks? Well I am getting off topic, just watch how numbers can be slanted.
I know Broner's mom takes care of his kids, so in my opinion he should want his kids to be in a better area. The reason why I used Floyd was because of his shitty relationship with his father. Like you said, that confrontation that they have made my stomach turn. Deeply. But I understand, how some can forgive and some can't. Situations are different and I can't knock your decisions about your pop. Again, my dad wasn't Mr. All American Dad but I understood his situation and I have to admit when shit got tough he did come through but it was only when shit got rough. I think he only came to like ten of my football games and maybe 3 baseball games. It hurt but he was going through his demons and now he seems to be at peace with himself. He goes all out for my son so I guess its his way to make amends on our relationship.